As I've matured and become a little "less invincible", one of the things that I've been "treated to" is thinking about how others must have felt when I look back at times in my life when I was being a complete jerk or was otherwise self-absorbed. It's not always relationship-related either; sometimes it was just moments when I being an over-confident, arrogant ass or didn't want to admit I was wrong and my memory can still see the faces of people that I mistreated.